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A Quickie for Women (Quick Piece of Dating Advice Between Chapters) (Click Here for Printer Version) I have a lot of women friends. Many of them complain that guys don’t approach them, whether they’re at a bar, sporting event, party, or so forth. Contrary to popular opinion, when we guys are “on the prowl,” we’re not looking for pretty women with great bodies; we’re looking for approachable women. When a woman catches a guy’s eye, he watches her for a moment before deciding whether to approach. Is she smiling? Laughing? Does she look like she’s having a good time? Is she drinking? Are her arms crossed? Is she arguing or debating with anyone? The guy is trying to determine if she’s approachable, if she wants to meet someone. Women with crossed arms or who are debating a serious topic, tend to be much harder to approach. Women who aren’t drinking tend to be out because their friends dragged them out, not because they want to be, at least as far as guys are concerned. Women that don’t catch a guy’s eye when he originally surveys the room often will catch it later with lots of smiling and laughter. Their demeanor makes them attractive. Look around. Are the guys hitting on the smiling, laughing women, or the sourpusses? Among friends, who gets hit on the most—the smiling, laughing ones or the frowning ones with crossed arms? A lot of my women friends don’t look approachable. They’re great women, but they’re not sending out a welcoming vibe. Want to meet more men? Smile. Laugh. Have fun. The guys will come.
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